You know love, there are only two things that can exist between people existing n living at really close quarters… its either love or its hate, there is just no other way… There never seems a place for the normal, the mundane there, only one or the other extreme. But why, why there isn’t any mid-way stop, why… And more times than not its hate, in its darkest to the lightest of face… You know I haven't been able to understand as to how people can't occur on amiable terms, if not on good or even great ones. May be that's the way it can be… After all, all of us have our own way of crossing the path of life to reach that end of ultimate peace. You know another reason of sorts can be the fact that we always end up wanting what others have, even when ours is much better. And may be this very jealousy, this void we feel when compared to others is what, that makes us rude, distant n hateful of others… But somewhere there ought to be a solution, for there always is. But what… n where… You know tris, at times I feel it could have been so so much better had we been unable to think, to see, to feel… for these always end one in pain physically, mentally n more importantly emotionally. And somehow with each single step towards hate, we take ten back from love… n somehow it doesn't feel like a fair deal n never will be, no matter what we want ourselves to believe… And you know what, distance really works… for when a person is at a distance where we can see him/her comfortably yet not express; we always find oneself more tolerant, more accepting, more open to believe the good that person might have. And strangely at closer quarters one is completely shut off regarding the possibility of any good whatsoever in the person standing by… there the only things our mind see is how lacking that person is n still he/she has everything that we ever wished for. And not for a single second we stop n think that that person might deserve each n everything he/she possess as his/her… and so do we, we have everything that ours, sooner or later… But then that’s us, the best-est creation of God, the great living organization, the lord, the man… haah…
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The issue usually is that in relationships when both want to have it their way things will go bad. Will not change until each seeks not their best but the best for their mate.
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wellll isn't that life, each one wants it to be their own very way.. but at the same time the thing with life is that it doesn't stop n care for ones wants all life concern itself with is "needs"
ReplyDelete"you may have thousand n ten wants, but yours will be only what you desperately need.."
:)Neh...what should be the meassurement of "Individuality" we should keep in a relationship? I do agree that the world starts from AHAM/ Self/ Me. But how much we have to keep this Aham within us in this inter-related world? Hence...in my opinion nothing to reject in this life. Thats the beauty of life.:D
ReplyDeletewelllllll I too feel so, yes life is all about that.. see P yes "we" matters and should beyond doubt, but the thing is if "me" is not in that "we" then it won't survive for long.. me has to be there, for if one can't value oneself, one can't value the other either.. but yes we need to accept "we" as well with "me.." :)
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